Understanding and Managing Emotions for Success

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Sophie Runciman, Operations Director & Lead Coach at BeyondEQ International

2/14/20222 min read

Emotional Intelligence (EQ) is the ability to understand and manage your own emotions, as well as the emotions of others. It’s a crucial aspect of personal and professional development that can have a significant impact on one’s success and happiness in life. EQ involves several key components, including self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills. There are 26 areas of EQ in total, and at BeyondEQ International we focus solely on the areas of growth you would want to focus on. Everybody is different! We offer a free emotional intelligence course as well to help get you started quickly and accelerate your journey of personal improvement.

Here’s a closer look at 5 of these 26 components and how they contribute to Emotional Intelligence.

Self-Awareness
Self-awareness is the foundation of Emotional Intelligence. It’s the ability to recognize and understand your own emotions and how they influence your thoughts, behaviors, and actions. When you are self-aware, you are able to identify what you’re feeling and why, which can help you manage your emotions in a healthy way.

Behavioral Self-Control
Behavioral Self-Control refers to the ability to control your emotions and behaviors. This includes being able to manage your thoughts, feelings, and impulses, especially in difficult or stressful situations. With strong behavioral self control you are better equipped to handle challenging emotions and remain calm and focused in the face of adversity.

Achievement Drive
Achievement Drive is another important component of Emotional Intelligence. It involves being able to identify and pursue your goals, even when faced with obstacles or setbacks. People with high Emotional Intelligence are often highly motivated and driven, which can help them achieve success in their personal and professional lives.

Empathy
Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. This includes being able to put yourself in someone else’s shoes and understand their perspective. Empathy is an important aspect of Emotional Intelligence because it allows you to build strong relationships and connect with others in a meaningful way.

Communication
Communication is a major component of Emotional Intelligence. It involves being able to effectively communicate with others and build strong, positive relationships. People with strong communication skills are often good at handling conflicts, negotiating, and working collaboratively with others.

Benefits of Emotional Intelligence
There are numerous benefits to developing Emotional Intelligence, including:

  • Improved relationships: By understanding and managing your own emotions, you are better equipped to communicate effectively with others and build strong, positive relationships.

  • Increased job satisfaction: People with high Emotional Intelligence tend to have higher job satisfaction and are more successful in their careers.

  • Better stress management: Emotional intelligence can help you better manage stress and cope with difficult emotions, allowing you to maintain your focus and remain productive even in challenging situations.

  • Improved mental health: Developing Emotional Intelligence can have a positive impact on your mental health, helping you build resilience and improve your overall well-being.

Final Thoughts
Emotional intelligence is an essential aspect of personal and professional development that can have a profound impact on one’s success and happiness in life. By developing self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills, you can improve your Emotional Intelligence and enjoy the numerous benefits that come with it.

Written by Sophie Runciman, Operations Director & Lead Coach at BeyondEQ International